The Officiant you select to preside over your wedding is an important facet to the ceremony. A level of comfort and rapport is desirable when inviting a person to participate in this important occasion. If vows will be taken through a church, temple mosque or chapel, often times you are paired with whomever is scheduled to conduct ceremonies for that day. If there is a family friend or a member of the clergy who is meaningful or special to you, ask if they might be welcome to preside over your nuptials. If you are planning a non traditional ceremony, (not performed in a place of organized religion) schedule interviews with available ministers or Notaries Public to see if they are a good choice for you both. If you seek a non-denominational religious ceremony, be sure to ask if the minister you interview is open to the wording you desire.
A Notary Public has a standard non-denominational ceremony they can perform but are usually willing to conduct the service you prefer. Ask if the prospective Officiant will allow you to write your own ceremony if that's what you wish or ask if they will work with you to write the ceremony as you envision it. Ask about his or her fees and whether it is inclusive of travel. The Officiant you choose will be a part of your wedding memories for all times. Take the time and choose who is right for you. |
